Men – Are You Ready?

Is this all there is to life?

Am I always going to feel like I’m operating at 50% capacity?

Where can I find a good male role model?

How do I surround myself with men who are “up to something”?

How can I get my emotions under control?

Why doesn’t my girlfriend or wife respect me more?

Is your stoicism becoming just a hiding place from living fully?

Has your sex life stagnated or gone away completely?

Are you sick of having to put up a false front of being tough and guarded?

Are you tired of comparing yourself to other’s versions of “success?

Are you constantly questioning yourself in your head?

Are you having trouble finding good men to look up to and be mentored by?

Do you just KNOW that there is so much more to life than this?

Then answer the call and take the journey.

Ways to work with Tom

Private Coaching

If you are ready to dive deeply into transforming your life, I offer customized one-on-one coaching packages to help you move forward.

To explore whether this is right for you, we’ll begin with a simple application and then we’ll talk in a brief, 1-on-1 conversation to explore whether it’s a right fit.

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Mens Groups

I have been running men’s groups for many years locally in New York. I’ve experienced the powerful transformations that take place when men come together in a supportive, nonjudgmental setting–free of the small talk and put downs that often take place in conversations between men.

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Virtual Programs

I work with men around the world who are ready to embark on a great adventure — who know there’s a lot more to life than they’ve been led to believe and than they have experienced so far.

The Open Deep and True Basic Course is a four month-long program that takes place virtually, so you can take part from anywhere, so long as you have a phone and computer.

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“A true leader with passion and guidance. If you let Tom take you on a new path, you will not be disappointed. Tom’s guidance cannot be underestimated or overstated. He is both wise and humble. Someone who will challenge what you know and have you find new knowledge at every turn.”

“Through Tom’s guidance, I was able to learn the practice of being ‘present’. This practice enabled me to better understand what is ‘real’ and to see what is happening for the moment. It is with renewed eyes through this practice that I take with me daily. His guidance and purposeful topics of learning help one lean in to the passions of life. These are but some illustrations where his gifts of giving really shine.”

- Scott
Interior Designer
Nyack, NY

“Tom has been an amazing facilitator in the art of moving out of our comfort zones. I can tell you from personal experience his groups have been powerful forces to help me overcome the hidden obstacles to be more aware and reach for new experiences. He has a keen ability to understand and glean insights from our meetings that leave you wondering — ” Wow, I never thought of it that way”. To know Tom and be be part of his programs is the first step a man can take breaking out of our isolating, average existence and realize the innate awesomeness we have within.”

- Michael
Logistics Executive
Nairobi, Kenya

“Tom’s experience is a deep dive into the hearts, minds and spirits of ourselves and fellow men in a courageous but secure environment . . . ”

“If you ever felt as though your heart and spirit needed some housekeeping; grab a broom and some courage and head over to Tom’s men’s group . . . you’ll be surprised to find what you are really made of.”

- John
Financial Advisor
Fairfield , CT

What do you get when you combine a Marine, a highly intuitive and skilled counselor and a savvy about the “real word” guy who’s also a gifted health coach? Tom Kelley. I am deep in the world of healers, counselors, coaches, mentors, etc. And I have yet to meet someone like Tom who is truly a man among men and yet still can be with you about your most intimate challenges in life and inspire you to handle them gracefully and confidently. If you’re looking for a mentor, hire him. You’ll become the person you always knew you could be.”

- Karin Witzig Rozell
Founder, The Wellness Professional Network